175 Questions to Ask Your Crush That Are Sure to Spark Intrigue
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We all know the exciting new adventure of meeting someone, feeling instantly attracted to them, and then realizing that they're someone you want to get to know on a deeper level. It's a rush of adrenaline and emotions, and probably most of all, nerves. So, how do you go about getting to know them better or even finding out if they want the same?
If you want some ideas and topics for questions to ask someone you like, we've got the best list of things to talk about with them! Choose from some of the best questions to ask—including deep, flirty and juicy questions, or even what to ask while texting. No matter what you're looking for, we have the 175 best questions to ask your crush.
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175 Best Questions to Ask Your Crush
1. How do you most enjoy spending time with your partner?
2. What is your favorite comfort food?
3. What is the nicest thing somebody has ever done for you?
4. What concert was your first?
5. Who do you admire the most?
6. What's the most flattering compliment you've ever received?
7. What are your thoughts on being friends before starting a relationship?
8. How important are your independence and personal space in a relationship?
9. What brings you the most joy?
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10. What do you think we have in common?
11. What do you enjoy doing for fun?
12. How would your friends describe you?
13. Do you believe in the concept of “the one”?
14. Are there any cultural events that catch your interest?
15. What is something that you think sets us apart from others?
16. What's your favorite vacation you've ever taken?
17. Do you enjoy spending time by yourself or with other people?
18. How do you feel about voting/politics?
19. How many relationships have you had?
20. What was your shortest relationship?
21. What was your longest relationship?
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22. Are you embarrassed by anything you have on social media?
23. What was your most embarrassing moment?
24. What's something that you think you spend too much money on?
25. What are your thoughts on compromise in relationships?
26. What does your name mean?
27. Do you live on your own?
28. Do you keep a clean house or do you pay someone to clean for you?
29. What is your most divisive viewpoint or stance?
30. What are you most looking forward to?
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Good Questions to Ask Your Crush
31. What are some qualities that you look for in a partner?
32. What were you like when you were a kid?
33. Do you think monogamy is possible?
34. What is your stance on long-distance relationships?
35. What would you do if you weren't doing the job you have now?
36. How do you feel about having pets?
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37. Have you ever told a lie to end a relationship?
38. Are you a planner or do you prefer to be spontaneous?
39. If you could embody any fictional character, who would you be?
40. In what ways have I made your life easier?
41. Who is your favorite author?
42. What's the best thing that you cook?
43. What topics do you enjoy discussing the most?
44. What is your favorite cologne/perfume?
45. What is your least favorite movie?
46. If you could talk about something for long hours, what would it be?
47. What are your interests?
48. Where do you enjoy going on a date?
49. What are you most passionate about?
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50. Do you believe that values should be similar in a relationship?
51. What is your most memorable trip?
52. When was the last time you developed romantic feelings for someone?
53. Have you ever been dishonest to secure a job?
54. What day of your life would you do over again if you could?
55. What would you do if money was not a factor?
56. Have you ever been cheated on?
57. Where do you plan to travel next?
58. What do you appreciate the most about our bond?
59. How frequently do you experience stress?
60. What do you believe your life's mission is?
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Flirty Questions to Ask Your Crush
61. What do you find the most appealing about me?
62. What do you consider a guilty pleasure?
63. If we were to go on a date, where would it be?
64. How would you describe our relationship?
65. What qualities do you look for in a partner?
66. What is your best pick up line?
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67. What's your love language?
68. What do you put on before going to bed?
69. What's your favorite part about being in a relationship?
70. How would you describe your attachment style?
71. Do you enjoy surprises?
72. When was the last time you felt most yourself?
73. Have you ever told a lie to avoid getting into trouble?
74. Do you have a crush on any celebrities?
75. What's your favorite memory of us together?
76. What little things make you the happiest in a relationship?
77. If you could travel anywhere with me, where would we go?
78. What attracts you to people?
79. What do people misunderstand about you?
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80. What's a dream of yours that I can help you accomplish?
81. Who's your ideal dinner companion?
82. What's something you want to do differently in your next relationship?
83. Have you ever snuck out of the house? For what?
84. What is the worst assumption someone has made about you?
85. Is there anything exciting that you'd like us to experience together?
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Deep Questions to Ask Your Crush
86. When was the last time you felt special or loved?
87. Have you ever been in love?
88. Do you gain energy by being alone or with other people?
89. Have you ever gone to a therapist?
90. What is your idea of love?
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91. If you had the opportunity, who would you choose to have dinner with from history, and why?
92. What are you most proud of?
93. Do you believe that fate plays a role in finding love?
94. Do you believe in soulmates?
95. What is your most unique talent?
96. What are the qualities that you admire the most in me?
97. Do I comfort you?
98. What's your stance on having a family?
99. Are you more into the idea of marriage for love or an arranged marriage?
100. Do you believe that love is forever?
101. What are some of your most precious memories?
102. What is your biggest regret?
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103. How do you think conflicts and fights should be handled?
104. Where do you see yourself in the next five or ten years?
105. How do you think people perceive you?
106. What are you most self-conscious about?
107. Who or what is your source of inspiration?
108. What's the most embarrassing moment you've had at work?
109. How did your last relationship end?
110. What are you most passionate about in life?
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Questions to Ask Your Crush While Texting
111. Do you prefer indoor dates, or outdoor?
112. You have a day off from normal responsibilities, what do you plan to do?
113. What's your favorite food?
114. Do you have any tattoos?
115. How important is having a routine to you?
116. What is your preferred method of talking?
117. What is your favorite thing about the city in which you grew up?
118. When is your birthday?
119. Do you have any siblings?
120. What's your favorite holiday?
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121. What causes you to swipe left?
122. What would make you swipe right?
123. What is something you've done that you believe everyone should try?
124. What was the most recent movie you watched?
125. Do you think double texting is a big deal?
126. If you had the opportunity to go on a date with a famous person, who would you choose?
127. What is your biggest pet peeve?
128. What is your favorite karaoke song?
129. Do you like to go on long walks?
130. What do you consider your best accomplishment?
131. What's your relationship like with your parents?
132. What has been your best and worst dating experience?
133. When do you feel the most creative?
134. What's your relationship like with your siblings?
135. What do you wish you were more skilled at?
136. Do you shower in the morning or at night?
137. If you were to rename yourself, what would your name be?
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138. What is the strangest dream you've ever had?
139. Would you rather leave your hometown and never return, or stay in your hometown and never leave?
140. Do you get bored easily?
141. What do you do to cure boredom?
142. What would the title of your life be if it were a film?
143. What hobby do you enjoy the most?
144. What type of animal would you be if you were one?
145. What's on your bucket list?
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Juicy Questions to Ask Your Crush
146. What is something that excites you?
147. What is your idea of the best date?
148. What's the most romantic thing you've done for someone?
149. What's the most daring thing you've done for love?
150. What's the most romantic thing someone has done for you?
151. What is your definition of touch?
152. What does intimacy mean to you?
153. Do you prefer physical touch or quality time together?
154. What are your three best qualities?
155. Where would you want to take me on a date?
156. Do you like to cuddle?
157. Do you prefer that others initiate contact?
158. Have you ever had a dream about me?
159. Do you prefer to sleep over or go home after a one-night stand?
160. What do you consider to be a red flag in a relationship?
161. How many people have you kissed?
162. What do you think my superpower is?
163. Do you think I'm romantic?
164. When was your first kiss?
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165. Do you have a secret that no one knows about you?
166. Do you consider yourself to be a great kisser?
167. What was your initial impression of me?
168. What’s the most embarrassing thing you’ve ever done to get a crush’s attention?
169. What's your best icebreaker?
170. What does your ideal weekend look like?
171. How would you describe your perfect date night?
172. What brings a smile to your face?
173. What do your friends think of me?
174. What have you done sexually with another person?
175. What turns you on?
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