155 Fun and Spicy 'Hot Seat Questions' to Ask Your Friends, Partner or Coworkers
Asking questions is never a bad thing! It’s ultimately the golden ticket to getting to know someone. It’s a powerful tool that not only makes interactions more engaging, but also builds connections and opens the door to discovering more about someone. However, you don’t want to just ask routine things like, “What’s your favorite color?” Instead, you want to aim for inquiries—like hot seat questions—that can be a little more surprising and spice up a conversation.
When you ask offbeat or thought-provoking questions, you’re not just scratching the surface—you’re diving into the rich, complex layers that make up who a person is. So, that’s where hot seat questions come in handy because they are far more than just part of a playful game; they’re a dynamic icebreaker and a great way to understand someone. These fun questions make conversations not just more engaging, but also more memorable.
Whether you’re looking to liven up a social gathering or deepen a relationship with a significant other, hot seat questions for couples or groups bring a refreshing twist that can turn ordinary chats into extraordinary discoveries as they can range from embarrassing to funny to spicy to thought provoking.
To see some examples of what you can ask someone, check out our roundup below. We included ones you can ask your friends, your partner or even your co-workers. By the time you’re done, you’ll know way more about whoever you’re asking these good questions to than you did before.
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What Are Hot Seat Questions?
Hot seat questions are designed to ignite deep thinking and maybe even give you a little mental zing! These questions are perfect for shaking things up at casual get-togethers with friends, with your significant other, with your colleges and more. They’re all about testing how well someone can think on their feet, fostering connection, and exploring someone’s thoughts in an engaging way.
They can also range from questions that evoke someone to get vulnerable, to ones that may be a little embarrassing to answer to ones that have a more spicy nature to them. It’s totally up to you to decide the tone of the questions you want to ask! The best part is, there is no such thing as a wrong answer, it’s just about answering honestly.
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Best Hot Seat Questions
1. If you had to choose one song to play every time you entered a room, what would it be and why?
2. What is the weirdest thing you've ever Googled?
3. What's the spiciest dream you've had recently?
4. What was the last TV show or movie that made you cry?
5. If you could go back in time and give your younger self one piece of advice, what would it be?
6. If you had a pair of X-ray glasses, which part of my body would you look at first?
7. If you could write a book about your life so far, what would be the title?
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Spicy Hot Seat Questions for Friends
8. Have you ever gone skinny dipping?
9. How many exes' numbers are still in your phone?
10. Did you ever have a crush on a teacher?
11. What’s the worst thing you’ve done to get out of trouble?
12. What's the weirdest dream you've ever had about a friend?
13. What fictional character are you attracted to?
14. Have you ever had a crush on a friend’s sibling? Who was it?
15. Have you ever been arrested?
16. Have you ever flirted with a cop?
17. Would you say you’ve been on Santa’s naughty or nice list most?
18. Have you ever played strip poker?
19. Do you think you’re a good kisser?
20. What thing could you buy that would make a cashier the most uncomfortable?
21. How old were you when you had your first kiss?
22. How many girlfriends/boyfriends have you had?
23. When was the last time you were jealous of someone?
24. Have you ever flirted with someone to get something you wanted?
25. Are you part of the mile high club?
26. If you had $1 for every person you've kissed, what could you buy?
27. If you could text someone without that person ever knowing it was you, who would you text, and what would the message be?
28. Have you ever cheated or been cheated on?
29. What is the craziest thing you've ever done?
30. What’s the craziest “what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas” thing you’ve done during a vacation?
31. Would you ever read romance books?
32. Have you ever had a secret fling?
33. Do you like to make the first move?
34. Have you ever been scammed?
35. What do you usually wear to sleep?
36. What's something that gives you the "ick"?
37. Would you consider yourself romantic?
38. What's the worst pick up line you've ever heard or used?
39. What's your ideal first date?
40. If you're with your parents and a spicy scene comes on, what's the first thing you do?
41. What's your favorite love story?
42. Would you ever go commando in public?
43. What's the most embarrassing thing you've ever done to get a crush's attention?
44. What's your biggest guilty pleasure?
45. What's the wildest thing you've ever done for love?
46. Who's the most "forbidden" person you've ever had a crush on?
47. Have you ever left an embarrassing drunk voicemail?
48. What's the biggest lesson you've learned in our relationship?
49. Have you ever had a crush on a friend's significant other?
50. What’s the spiciest compliment you’ve ever received, and who gave it to you?
51. What's something people would be surprised to know about you?
52. What’s your go-to romantic gesture to make someone feel special?
53. Have you ever sent a scandalous text to the wrong person?
54. What's one of your dating deal-breakers?
55. Do you tend to follow your head or your heart?
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Spicy Hot Seat Questions for Couples
56. Have you ever wanted to try something with me but were afraid to ask?
57. What spicy thing could you win a world record for?
58. If our relationship had a soundtrack, what song would represent our most romantic moments?
59. How long before we started dating were you into me?
60. What’s something I do that makes your heart race?
61. What kind of touch do you find most attractive?
62. How do you feel about public displays of affection?
63. Is there a movie or book that gets you in the mood?
64. How do you feel about whispering sweet nothings?
65. What’s your favorite pet name for me, and how did you come up with it?
66. What's the most exhilarating risk you’ve ever taken in our relationship?
67. What kind of flirting do you find most irresistible?
68. What was going through your mind when you first met me?
69. What are three body parts you find attractive?
70. Do you have a favorite scent or perfume?
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71. How do you feel about a surprise romantic getaway?
72. How important is setting the mood for you, like with music or candles?
73. Do you get jealous when other guys/girls check me out?
74. Is there a movie scene that completely captures your ideal romantic evening?
75. What do I do that gives you butterflies still to this day?
76. I heard kissing burns a lot of calories. Want to help me exercise?
77. If I ask you to dress me for our date night, which outfit of mine would you pick?
78. If you were to describe me with three words, how would you describe me?
79. What’s your favorite type of kiss?
80. How do you feel about trying out a new and daring date night idea?
81. What has been your favorite date we've gone on together?
82. Have you ever bragged to your friends about me?
83. Who was your first crush?
84. What's your dream day off?
85. What's your love language?
86. Have you ever been inside a gentlemen's club?
87. How do you feel about making out like teenagers?
88. Do you think about me when I am not nearby?
89. Do you like surprises?
90. Is there a specific outfit you think I look especially hot in?
91. What’s the most romantic thing you’ve ever wanted to do?
92. What’s something I do that makes you feel loved?
93. What’s your guilty pleasure when it comes to romantic movies or novels?
94. Who has been your funniest celeb crush?
95. How many single girls' numbers are in your phone?
96. How many people have you said “I love you” to?
97. What is your opinion of hickeys?
98. If you could make out with me anywhere in the world, where would it be?
99. What do you think of open relationships?
100. When we wake up in the morning, what is the first thought that comes to mind when you look at me?
101. If you could plan out the perfect date night for us, what would we do?
102. If you could create a personalized “love coupon,” what would you write on it?
103. How would you describe our relationship?
104. Who was your first love?
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Hot Seat Questions for Work
105. Have you ever been kicked out of a public place? What for?
106. What was something you did because you thought it was cool, but now makes you embarrassed?
107. If the zombie apocalypse started tomorrow, who in this office would survive?
108. If you could only save one coworker from a fire, who would you pick?
109. What’s the longest you’ve ever gone without showering?
110. Have you ever Googled yourself?
111. What’s the weirdest nickname you’ve ever been called and what’s the story behind it?
112. What’s the craziest dare you’ve ever accepted?
113. Have you ever lied on your job application?
114. Have you ever accidentally copied someone on an email who shouldn’t have seen it?
115. Which colleague would you want on your team if you could only pick one person?
116. Tell us about a quirky superstition you believe in and why.
117. If you could have anyone else's job, whose would it be?
118. What’s the strangest thing you’ve ever purchased and why?
119. Have you ever ghosted someone? Why?
120. What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever done to save money?
121. What’s the funniest misheard lyric you’ve ever sung?
122. What’s the funniest prank you’ve ever pulled or been a part of?
123. Have you ever worn dirty clothes to the office?
124. Have you ever broken something at a friend’s house and not told them?
125. Have you ever laughed at an inappropriate time? What happened?
126. If you had the option, would you fire yourself or fire your best friend?
127. If your pet could write a Yelp review about you, what do you think it would say?
128. Have you ever cheated on a work project?
129. Do you take a shower/bath each day?
130. Have you ever made up references for your resume?
131. Have you ever accidentally liked one of your boss’s old Instagram photos?
132. Who’s the celebrity you’re obsessing over right now and why?
133. What’s your top work "ick" and why?
134. Have you ever lied about calling in sick?
135. If you won the lottery, what would be the first thing you do?
136. Have you had a dream about someone you work with before?
137. If you had to create a meme based on your last embarrassing moment, what would the caption be?
138. Who in your office would you want to be stuck in an elevator with and why?
139. What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever eaten?
140. Have you flirted with someone in your office?
141. What’s something you’d be embarrassed about if your coworkers found out?
142. What’s the most embarrassing song you have on your Spotify list?
143. How often are you in sweatpants while doing Zoom calls?
144. What’s the most awkward experience you’ve had at work?
145. Have you accidentally Slacked the wrong person a personal message before?
146. Have you ever been caught daydreaming at your desk?
147. Have you ever eaten or drank something from the office fridge that wasn’t yours?
148. What’s the boldest thing you’ve ever done?
149. Have you ever faked sick to get out of doing a work presentation?
150. Have you given a coworker a nickname before and accidentally called them it?
151. What is your most useless skill?
152. Share a funny or bizarre talent you possess that not many people know about.
153. What’s the strangest item you have in your closet right now, and is there a story behind it?
154. What’s your most prized possession and why?
155. If you were an animal, what would you be and why?
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