Comedian Rob Delaney says sobriety 'allows me to grieve fully' over young son's death
Comedian Rob Delaney, known for his roles in comedies such as Deadpool 2 and Amazon’s Catastrophe, shared serious thoughts Monday, as he marked 17 years of sobriety.
He recalled that, in 2002, he was in jail and using a wheelchair, where he ended up after crashing into a building while driving drunk. Delaney thanked everyone who had helped him along in his addiction struggle, and he said that being sober has helped him cope with the death of his 2?-year-old son Henry, from a brain tumor in January 2018.
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— rob delaney (@robdelaney) February 4, 2019
Delaney has spoken before about how difficult the death has been for his family, including wife Leah and four other sons. He added now that he “squeaked by” the tough year. Had he not been sober, he wrote, it “would have been far worse.”
“Sobriety allows me to grieve fully, and grief is an expression of love,” Delany said.
Fans applauded his honesty, many of them citing Delaney as an inspiration for them to get or stay sober.
“Sobriety allows me to grieve fully, and grief is an expression of love”
Brutal and hard-won truth. I’m sorry, and I hope life brings you love and kindness 🙏🏼
— Naomi ? (@nayhomes) February 4, 2019
To say grief is an expression of love…wow, that changed me a little bit. I am going to be selfish for a minute: the parts of you I get to enjoy are your work & your Twitter. And both of these things, I say from the outside, are better because you’re sober. So thank YOU 🙏🏼??.
— MellyMed🦋 (@mel_med_larson) February 4, 2019
Though you don’t know me or the many people who like or read what you post, thank you so much. Sometimes you help to make it through a very tough day; sometimes you’re inspiring; sometimes you offer up a needed laugh. It’s all appreciated! Thank you! ??
— Jon Bostwick (@jonbost) February 4, 2019
It’ll be seven for me in 8 days.
I would have never survived the last 7 drinking.
It’s only because of folks like you who show me it can be done, even if the absolute worst thing happens.
Congrats on your 17 & the 17xxxxxxx you’ve helped stay sober.
— Abbey Simmons (@abbey_simmons) February 4, 2019
Beautiful message, Rob. Love and respect.
— Richard Kahan (@RichardKahan) February 4, 2019
Love and continued strength to you, Rob. X
— rufus jones (@rufusjones1) February 4, 2019
Delaney and his wife welcomed their youngest son late last year.
“Having another child in no way, shape or form eases the grief of Henry dying,” he told the Sunday Times Magazine in the U.K. in December 2018. “But also having Henry dying doesn’t make our new son any less magical. I want to gobble him up and he deserves our full attention and love, and he grew in the same womb as Henry.”
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